Tonight, at the cigar shop, we were watching Merriweather fight Cotto. And the fight was one of the best I have seen in a long time.
We had pit beef, pit chicken, pit shrimp, bbq corn on the cob, baked potatos, and baked beans. Aged kentucky Bourbon, Cognac, and aged spiced Rum. Just another night hanging out with the guys. It was epic.
But, that is not what I wanted to comment on.
A few women were there. All were wives or girlfriends of the guys.
One in particular showed me what we are taught, but some of you still do not accept. I accept it, but this is the first time I saw it as a third person.
This guy has an amazing background, from being an orphan due to war, to becoming a pro bodybuilder, to being a successful doctor. This guy is what we try to be as PUAs. And, he has solid game that I have yet to see shaken.
But, here is what I saw tonight.
His girl was with him. She’s smoking. I mean so hot that she lit cigars just by walking by.
But, he was aloof to her. He was focused on being with the guys and being part of the party. He did not look at her. When he had to move his feet so she could move by to sit by him, you could see the look of annoyance on his face. And she saw it to, because her focus was on him.
With all these guys around, she started touching his leg. And because he let her touch him, she was happy. Genuinely happy. You could see it on her face.
Guys, stop being attentive to the women you are with. Women are attracted to this kind of guy. They WANT to be with this kind of guy.
Be that kind of guy.